Honestly, this is going to be dealer's choice, but I'm going to list some of my favorite ones and socket them into whatever firmware slots that make the most sense for you.
Action Fist gives us increased Melee damage, and each rank of this is particularly good - giving us increased Action Skill Damage on melee kill. Remember, Forgewave will COUNT as a Melee kill, so this can get disgusting
Reel Big Fist can get absolutely out of control. This will increase our Forgewave damage by 40%, AND it will cause massive explosions that do 200% melee damage. I'm not overly sure how the ordnance and melee damage attributes of Forgewave work with
Shatterwight so more testing is needed to see how wild this can get.
Gadget Ahoy is a great firmware because it's just an out of the box flat damage increase to the build across the entire spectrum. Nearly everything we do is Ordnance damage focused and this will give us a total of 40% extra Ordnance damage - with 20% of that 40 being a flat damage bonus across the board. It can also lead to some real mayhem with your Ordnance slot.
GOOJFC is last but DEFINITELY not least because I think it's the strongest firmware on the list. It'll help you balance having
Scourge up at all times. You can keep Scourge online, BUT it requires you to do damage to keep it running. This allows us to use
Scourge at a faster rate in between engagements, thus giving us tons of damage potential.